Jan 4, 2010

Life, as I see it...

Life is not perfect... Every single person on Earth knows that (excepting kids, of course)... But why can it not be close to perfect??? Why does everyone have to go through a lot of crap in life??? Why do problems haunt everyone's life??? Is it to teach us petty human beings a lesson - a lesson that we cannot have everything served to us on a golden platter??? Granted, hardships in life are those inseparable parts of life which lead us to be what we are... But why do hardships have to be so bloody hard???

Every relationship shared by two persons faces its own ups and downs... But are the downs the end of life??? No, they are not... We feel extremely helpless when we are faced with the downs in our lives... But should these downs come in the way of the ups as well... It is not easy to forget, but won't forgetting the downs help everyone??? Well, I face a lot of turmoil when these downs happen to me... What am I supposed to do??? Cry and let fate take control over my life??? Or get my ass down and do something to change it??? But that is not enough... To take a stand and try to change the downs would involve other people's feelings as well... Do they want a change or do they want fate to take control??? If someone you care deeply about is hurt by your actions, you are supposed to change the action... Undoing it is impossible, so not repeating it is the best option... But here comes the next question, should you or should you not change yourself, let go off yourself in order to satisfy the other important people in your life... These questions baffle me all the time... Our future is the consequence of our present actions... So the present action is the most imporant thing in life... Setting your present well would secure your future... Life is not a straight and smooth highway... It is like a maze or a network of roads... Some of them might be smooth, some might not... All the roads lead to different destinations... It is your call to choose the road of life, and reach the destination...

6 comments:

The Juggernaut said...

yea...i face that many times...but at the end of the day all u can do is stand back and watch things unfold...not much we can do

Dazed by the Light I See... said...

:)

the poet manque said...

no matter how bad we screw up , no matter what we have been through we have to live till the day we are alive.

PEACE!

Saket said...

i like it.. you from orissa.?

Sumith said...

"But here comes the next question, should you or should you not change yourself, let go off yourself in order to satisfy the other important people in your life..."

What did u decide??

Dazed by the Light I See... said...

Saket, yes I am from Orissa...

Sumith,
I am committed to try not to change myself to suit other people's specifications... But yes, I try to compromise at times, or in return accept the way they are!!